Program description
Tattle Timer sends opt-in accountability text messages to verified Accountabilibuddies. Messages may include consent confirmations, phone verification codes, missed-deadline notifications, proof-status notifications, preference links, and required support or opt-out messages.
Tattle Timer does not send anonymous messages, prank messages, cold invitations, or marketing blasts to contacts who have not opted in.
How SMS opt-in works
An app user manually shares an invite link with a trusted adult contact. The contact opens the link, confirms they are 18 or older, enters their own phone number, agrees to receive verification and accountability texts, verifies the phone number, and saves SMS preferences. SMS consent is not prechecked.
For toll-free SMS verification and provider review, see the SMS opt-in evidence page.
Sample opt-in wording:
Message frequency and costs
Message frequency varies based on commitments, missed deadlines, verification events, contact preferences, and safety/provider caps. Tattle Timer is designed to use frequency limits and quiet windows for Accountabilibuddies.
Message and data rates may apply. Carriers are not liable for delayed or undelivered messages.
HELP and STOP
Reply HELP for help. A HELP response should identify Tattle Timer, explain that messages are opt-in accountability messages, provide a preference or support path where available, and remind the recipient they can reply STOP to opt out.
Reply STOP to opt out. STOP and reasonable opt-out variants should suppress future Tattle Timer SMS to that phone number unless the contact later completes a deliberate re-consent flow.
Sample messages:
SMS privacy
SMS opt-in data and consent records are used to operate Tattle Timer messaging, support opt-out, prevent abuse, maintain compliance evidence, and troubleshoot delivery. We do not sell SMS opt-in data or share it with third parties for their own marketing or promotional purposes.
See the Privacy Policy for more information.
Voice opt-out and recordings
Where voice is enabled, Tattle Timer calls are consent-based prerecorded accountability calls. Calls should identify Tattle Timer, identify the requesting user, disclose prerecorded or AI-generated audio, and provide an opt-out path such as Press 9.
If a contact is offered a short voice-note recording, Tattle Timer should disclose the recording before it starts and explain that the recording may be sent to the user and may be transcribed or moderated.
Support
For support, opt-out help, or abuse reports, reply HELP where SMS is enabled or email jonathan@tattletimer.com.